Bigger and better adventures

Today, by complete coincidence, we had 2 appointments at the child development centre.

Audiology - a follow up from one last winter, to be sure that the sluggishness at that time was only due to a cold and nothing else.

Talia turned to hear all the sounds played - they asked if I wanted them to actually look in her ears but knowing how much she hates anyone touching her ears (major screaming sesson), I decided not to worry about it. No need to see them again.

Speech pathology - a first appointment after a referral made in (drumroll) May 2008! Can you tell they don’t have enough SPs in the public system here? I would have gone private if I was really worried, but figured Talia would catch up in her own time.

I had a lovely surprise before we went. They had sent a form asking how many words she said spontaneously (ie not just copying you) and I had filled it out in December but now went over it again and was able to circle a heap more words. I thought it was going to be about 60 words, but including animal noises, names of characters etc, it was more like 90. In perspective: 15 months - no clear words. 18 months - less than 10 words. 21 months - 90 words. So proud of my little cherub.

At the appointment Talia was brilliant, played with all the toys, even came out with a new word while we were there. The SP said she is well on the way to the 2 year average which is basically (a) 50 words and (b) two word sentences. We don’t have 2 word sentences yet, but apparently they usually consist of object + describing word or doing word, and Talia knows lots of objects but says very few describing/doing words. So that’s what I’ll be trying to concentrate on while I’m playing with her. The SP also said she is great at commenting and understands what’s being said, but isn’t so good at using language for “social purposes” - for example she doesn’t call for attention or make requests much using words. So that’s something else we’ll be trying to work on. We’re going to have a follow up appoinment in 3-4 months time.

To top the day off, Talia ate a huge (for her) amount of ravioli for dinner… so I’m very happy on all counts!

Today was my birthday (old, even older than when I was pregnant and didn’t people go on about “advanced maternal age” even then!) and also the date of Talia’s 8 month check up.

As before our four month check up, we were sent a questionnaire to complete in advance of the appointment. In contrast to the previous time, we were delighted to be able to tick “yes” to many of the questions, including almost all of those relating to fine motor skills. She can pick up items as small as a sultana. There were still a few “not yet”s, including two of the gross motor skills - rolling and crawling. However we are much less worried about Talia’s development overall than we were 4 months ago, when she was clearly showing delays in many areas.

The actual meeting with the paediatrician was relatively short, and he told us that he considered all her development to be within normal ranges, with the possible exception of her speech development. Talia babbles happily, but doesn’t use many consonants. It might be that she is not hearing everything clearly, so he arranged for us to see an audiologist to double check Talia’s hearing. Of course it might just be that she is taking her own time - the same way she has been setting her own timeline for other milestones.

In the waiting room we met up with Talia’s boyfriend Reuben who was born the same day, at a similar gestation. He has always been bigger, and now at 8 months corrected he is around 10kg, has been crawling for weeks and is already cruising the furniture. In fact he is doing better than the full term babies in my mothers group who are the same age!

Talia herself is almost 7kg - 6960g to be exact, and nudging the 10th percentile. Four months ago she was only about 4.5kg and so far below the 3rd percentile that I was stressing myself into a state of depression. Thank goodness times have changed and all for the better. Her length is a little below the 10th percentile, although with the amount of wriggling going on I’d be amazed if they actually took a correct measurement. Most amazing though, was the head circumference. This has always been bigger than anything else, but when I put it on the chart after we returned home I couldn’t believe it - 90th percentile, up from less than the 75th. I guess those brains will come in handy, especially if she turns out to be as bad at sport as her parents.

As I’m writing this post it’s the end of the day and I’ve blown out a candle and made a birthday wish - to see my daughter continue to grow happily and healthily, and tick off all those boxes as “yes” eventually.

Hip hip, hooray!

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This post was originally written for the main LAP blog and can be seen at http://www.lilaussieprems.com.au/blogs/02/our-8-month-corrected-check-up/